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The Weight of Unchosen Paths

I keep a small, rusted iron key in a velvet pouch, though I have no idea which door it once opened. It is heavy, cold to the touch, and worn smooth by hands that have long since turned to dust. There is a peculiar ache in holding something that promises entry to a place that no longer exists. We spend our lives navigating intersections, choosing one street over another, forever haunted by the phantom geography of the roads we did not walk. We assume that by picking a direction, we are defining our story, but perhaps we are only ever tracing the outlines of a map drawn by someone else. Every turn is a quiet surrender of a thousand other possibilities, leaving us to wonder if the destination matters as much as the hesitation we feel before the signpost. If we could see the entire labyrinth at once, would we still be so eager to choose, or would we simply sit on the curb and watch the light change?

Directions in Paris by Henri Coleman

Henri Coleman has captured this feeling of quiet uncertainty in his image titled Directions in Paris. It reminds me that sometimes the most honest way to travel is to simply stand still and acknowledge the weight of all the ways we might have gone. Does this image make you want to follow the signs, or stay exactly where you are?