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The Weight of Cold Air

When I was seven, my mother insisted I wear a heavy wool coat that scratched my neck until it turned bright red. I hated the bulk of it, the way it made me feel like a stuffed doll unable to bend my arms properly. But that winter in the city, the wind had a way of finding the gaps in your clothes, a sharp, invisible needle that didn’t care if you were shivering. I remember watching the older children walk to school, their heads tucked low, their bodies leaning into the invisible wall of the gale. They didn’t complain. They just moved, one heavy step after another, as if the cold were merely a chore they had to finish before they could get to the warmth of a classroom. I realized then that some burdens are not meant to be fought, but simply carried until they are no longer in your way. We spend so much of our lives trying to stay comfortable, forgetting that the most important parts of us are often forged in the biting air.

Winter Stroll by Ilyas Yilmaz

Ilyas Yilmaz has taken this beautiful image titled Winter Stroll. It captures that same quiet, stubborn movement against the elements, reminding me that we are often stronger than the weather we walk through. Does the cold make you feel smaller, or does it make you feel more alive?